I can’t take credit for coming up with the idea for today’s story. I was inspired by a comment made by Cupcake Travels on my post yesterday. She was referencing a public speaking course she’d taken years ago, to help her overcome her fear of public speaking.
Which reminded me of how much I’ve always dreaded standing up in front of a group — large or small — and speaking. Or even presenting work. Which can be very challenging for a writer, working in advertising. We have to stand up and present our work on a daily basis.
As a child I was terminally shy. Over the years I’ve really worked very hard to overcome it. Some days are better than others, even now. But most people who know me, would be surprised to hear I’m shy, by nature. Guess Continue reading →
I’d wanted to write about this the day after President Obama’s State of the Union address, but I got distracted. Oh, don’t worry, this isn’t a ‘political’ post. I’m not about to dissect every word he said. The media has already done it.
Done it. And done it. And done it. I just want to talk about two sentences in his speech : “We were never sent here to be perfect. We were sent here to make what difference we can.”
Truer words were never spoken. What struck me was, the sentiment applies to almost every human endeavour you can think of. We are so obsessed with ‘getting it right’ all the time, sometimes we never get started. We stay stuck. We go nowhere. And you know what? We end up losing by default.
We’re so afraid we won’t be good enough, we never sign up for those art classes we’ve always wanted to take. Or the dance lessons. Or we don’t apply for a job we’d like for fear we wouldn’t get it. We’re afraid our low offer might be rejected, so we don’t bid on the house we like. Or we don’t ask the pretty girl out. Or start training for the marathon. Or enter the golf tournament.
Because if we don’t think we can ace it, we’ve made ourselves believe it’s not worth trying.
The amount of money we have to raise seems like an impossible task so, instead, we do no fundraising at all. Continue reading →
Yesterday wasn’t the most productive day I’ve ever had. By choice. I was glued to my television. Yes, I stayed home and watched the Inauguration. All day. I watched every bit of it.
When President Obama was elected to his first term, I was completely caught up in Obama fever. I was in India when he was inaugurated. I remember telling my travel agent I didn’t care where we were, or what she’d planned, I was going to be watching TV. As it turned out, we were in the South, in a tiny hill station 7,500 feet above sea level. On a tea plantation in Munnar.
It was quite a remote spot, and I was concerned there’d be no way I’d be able to watch. Happily I was wrong. Our resort had one television set, in a large alcove off the dining room.
And there I was, at 1:30 in the morning, with other tourists from all over the world — Germany, France, Continue reading →